The Taliban pounded on the door just before midnight, demanding that
Aisha, 18, be punished for running away from her husband's house. Her
in-laws treated her like a slave, Aisha pleaded. They beat her. If she
hadn't run away, she would have died. Her judge, a local Taliban
commander, was unmoved. Aisha's brother-in-law held her down while her
husband pulled out a knife. First he sliced off her ears. Then he
started on her nose.
This didn't happen 10 years ago, when the Taliban ruled Afghanistan.
It happened last year. Now hidden in a secret women's shelter in Kabul,
Aisha listens obsessively to the news. Talk that the Afghan government
is considering some kind of political accommodation with the Taliban
frightens her. "They are the people that did this to me," she says,
touching her damaged face. "How can we reconcile with them?" (See pictures of Afghan women and the return of the Taliban.)
In June, Afghan President Hamid Karzai established a peace council
tasked with exploring negotiations with the Taliban. A month later, Tom
Malinowski from Human Rights Watch met Karzai. During their
conversation, Karzai mused on the cost of the conflict in human lives
and wondered aloud if he had any right to talk about human rights when
so many were dying. "He essentially asked me," says Malinowski, "What is
more important, protecting the right of a girl to go to school or
saving her life?" How Karzai and his international allies answer that
question will have far-reaching consequences, not only for Afghanistan's
women, but the country as a whole. (Watch TIME's video on photographing Aisha for the cover.)
As the war in Afghanistan enters its ninth year, the need for an exit
strategy weighs on the minds of U.S. policymakers. Such an outcome, it
is assumed, would involve reconciliation with the Taliban. But Afghan
women fear that in the quest for a quick peace, their progress may be
sidelined. "Women's rights must not be the sacrifice by which peace is
achieved," says parliamentarian Fawzia Koofi. (Comment on this story.)
Yet that may be where negotiations are heading. The Taliban will be
advocating a version of an Afghan state in line with their own
conservative views, particularly on the issue of women's rights. Already
there is a growing acceptance that some concessions to the Taliban are
inevitable if there is to be genuine reconciliation. "You have to be
realistic," says a diplomat in Kabul. "We are not going to be sending
troops and spending money forever. There will have to be a compromise,
and sacrifices will have to be made." (Watch TIME's video "Portraits of the Women of Afghanistan.")
For Afghanistan's women, an early withdrawal of international forces
could be disastrous. An Afghan refugee who grew up in Canada, Mozhdah
Jamalzadah recently returned home to launch an Oprah-style talk
show in which she has been able to subtly introduce questions of women's
rights without provoking the ire of religious conservatives. On a
recent episode, a male guest told a joke about a foreign human-rights
team in Afghanistan. In the cities, the team noticed that women walked
six paces behind their husbands. But in rural Helmand, where the Taliban
is strongest, they saw a woman six steps ahead. The foreigners rushed
to congratulate the husband on his enlightenment — only to be told that
he stuck his wife in front because they were walking through a
minefield. As the audience roared with laughter, Jamalzadah reflected
that it may take about 10 to 15 years before Afghan women can truly walk
alongside men. But once they do, she believes, all Afghans will
benefit. "When we talk about women's rights," Jamalzadah says, "we are
talking about things that are important to men as well — men who want to
see Afghanistan move forward. If you sacrifice women to make peace, you
are also sacrificing the men who support them and abandoning the
country to the fundamentalists that caused all the problems in the first
place."
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